15 Things Gay Men Need To Stop Doing

this is so true…but I think that the last one is the cause for the first 14

Thought Catalog

1) Having an irrational fear of effeminacy in guys. It’s basically misplaced misogyny. I know we all have things we’re attracted to, but there’s a big difference between being attracted to masculine guys and being disgusted by so-called “queens,” so take note all you people who write “No Fems/Queens/Fashion Divas” in your profiles. Why without queens, this world would be an undecorated, deeply boring and highly uninspired place!

2) Describing yourself as “straight-acting.” What does that even mean? You S the D, right? WELP THERE IS NOTHING STRAIGHT ACTING ABOUT THAT AS FAR AS I AM AWARE.

3) Trying to fit some magical ideal of gay male beauty. I always get so sad when I see gay men who aren’t able to express themselves the way they should because they are so wrapped up in being just like all the other gays. You know — the gay clones. I don’t…

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The Paterno Family should just Let it Go

The Paterno Family should just Let it Go

I think we all can understand the Paterno family’s desire to rehabilitate the reputation of their dead father and disgraced head coach.  One has to wonder, at what point does it become clear to them that they should just let this whole fight to blame the NCAA for rushing to judgement go?  I can only imagine that when the NCAA goes to court to fight this lawsuit (and the one the Pennsylvania governor has filed), they will bring out even worse information about Paterno and Sandusky and the long relationship that allowed Sandusky to molest children, that will further damage or destroy what is left of Paterno’s reputation.  The Paterno family should feel fortunate that their father died before he could possibly be sent to prison for being an accessory to child rape.



I took the subway a lot on this trip. When I’ve visited ny before, I took cabs or walked. I was on a budget this time so subway it was. It’s actually faster than a cab or car service. And I finally understand the difference between express and local service.